Violence caused by mental illness has two sides: the random act suffered by the person who experienced the violence and the person with a mental illness who did not have the mental capacity to form criminal intent. Both sides are real. Both sides are relevant. And for both sides, it can feel impossible to move past the event.
However, when mental illness causes violence without intent, healing becomes easier. If each side understands what happened, forgiveness (including self-forgiveness) can help them let go of their anger, accept what happened, and heal enough to enjoy life again.
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